In the bedroom once we are all comfortable together we are open minded yes we understand everyone has limits and we are respectful of that we are a full swap couple with a bi-wife and seeking similar couples or single women. Usually at a quiet place for a drink and if we all connect. My two most enjoyable things in life are a good book! If your older than 43 don't even try because ur going to get no response from. It's been a helluva journey i've taken the scenic route but i look forward to spending time with someone interesting i am a per who looks beyond what may be the obvious.